Lovelife...Love life=)

Part 3

8.Let me answer the question of my friend Uma. Although I already texted him my point of view.Here's the question:My friends advice that I should always put my best foot forward during dates. Is this right? Jem, gusto ko serious talk ha? =)
-First, I may sound funny in answering love probs but if you'll just read between the lines, you'll know it makes sense (xempre magbubuhat ako ng sarili kong bangko hehe).Personally, I don't agree w/ his friends. I don't know how to say this but it's unfair for the girl that you're only showing her things that can impress her and make her like or love you for the things that are lovely.Be natural. The girl will decide if she'd like you no matter how many DESPITE OFs,BUTs and IFs you have. I think this is the root of "sumbatan". For me it's like marketing a toy. You'll convince the child she has the best toy in the world but later on she'll discover the side effects like addiction,and recently the issue on too much content of lead. Whether it's intentional or accidental,the damage has been done. Poor child,it's either she'll get poisoned absolutely or hard to get cured.. But hey it can be vice versa for gender sensitivity's sake!hehe

9. I love her so much but she has a bf...but she enjoys my company...
-Well, to my guy friend, how sure are you that she really is enjoying your company and does it imply that you have a chance on her?I don't want to hurt your feelings but hey it maybe true that she's enjoying your company but it could only mean as friends. If she's showing signs that she likes you, don't jump into conclusions. If she had said something that gave you hope, think a thousand times. If she really likes you,what's the point of keeping her relationship? Well,I think I've mentioned this on part 2.

10.There's this girl that I like but we have a conflict on religion..
-Ouch. That hits me hehe... anyways,I really believe that God should be the center of the relationship. If you cannot reconcile the issue, just accept God's plan for both of you.it's hard (I should know) and will really take you a lot of mixed emotions but you can't do anything about it.. Just pray and let Him guide you...

11.I get irritated w/ his ex.
-My gosh gurl,grow up hehe.. he's yours what more can you ask for. i think it should be the other way around but either way it's pathetic.Yeah, I admit that there were times that I got insecure with my ex ex-gf but I'm just grateful that he taught me to act as an adult and if he felt that I was provoked that's why I fought back,he reminds me to become a good person as I can be just to stop the "war" between us...Well,silence or revenge doesn't stop the issue so better to keep silent and make the other party look pathetic on her acts(if she's hitting you also). Be the best that you can be whether you're the ex or the present gf.Just be considerate on the feelings of your bf if you act childishly in public just because his ex is around and please be careful w/ your words. You may think that you're hitting the ex but on the other side you really look and sound funny.'cause maybe she's bein quiet and you still act as an envious diva all this time.We're not high school students anymore. (again,I should know.period)


More issues next time!I just want to post this asap for my friend Uma hehe although I already texted him about his question =)